時間と心配

待つのはとても苦しいです。

転職のチャンスを待っている

仕事の連絡を待っている

人生は色々な事を待っている。

時間は公平的な物ですが、何故待つの時間は長すぎで、代わりに嬉しい時刻は凄く短いでしょう。

やぱっり、態度じゃない？

嬉しい時、人はその時の行う事が楽しんでいて、時間も忘れてしまう。

しかし、つらい時、人の心はイライラで一刻も早くこの悪夢に逃げ出したい、お陰で時間の経つも凄く気になっている。

ところで、ある人は悪地になっても、態度もとても積極的です。多分、心配しても何もできないから。まるで映画「ブリッジ・オブ・スパイ」の台詞のように：

“Aren’t you worried?” 「心配しますか。」

“Would it help?”「心配したら、何か変えるのか。」

確かに人生はいろんな心配や悪地があります。しかし、それは時々私達の手で変えないのです。だから、心配と言うより、むしろ積極的で生きている方が良いじゃない？

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It is always hard to wait for something.

Whether is it to wait for chances to change career or waiting for job to come?

Our life is really full of waiting.

It is a fact that time is equal to everyone and everything.

Nonetheless, sometimes people tend to feel that happy time is always shorter than the bad time.

Why is that so?

Attitude problem is to the main culprit.

When we are in a happy situation, we are enjoying the process and tend to forget about the passing of time.

However, on the other way around, due to the fact that the situation is so bad, people tend to look forward to escape the hardness of it. That leads to more attention on the passing of time.

By the way, there happens to be a type of people who is very optimistic even when he ran into bad situation. Perhaps, to them, worrying couldn’t change a fact. This is just like the quote from movie ‘Bridge of Spies’:

“Aren’t you worried?”

“Would it help?”

There happens to be a lot of bad situations in life, however, sometimes it is not to us to decide what will happen next. Thus, instead of worrying, why don’t we become more positive towards life?